Ever since 2011, when Fifty Shades of Grey hit bookshelves and became a massive hit, it has become abundantly clear that both women and men crave sex– and they like it a little kinky. Nothing’s wrong with that, so why not embrace the “kinky-fuckery” with these Ana and Christian inspired sex moves for Valentine’s Day?
Not too out of the ordinary, handcuffs (or perhaps some zip-ties) can spice up anyone’s night. A little take-charge attitude is sure to be a major turn on for your significant other. With Spencer’s,online shops, or even an actual set of cuffs, the possibilities are endless.
A man in a tie is a sexy sight, but making it so his sight is obscured can be even steamier! Take your man’s tie and use it as a blindfold, by eliminating sight you will enhance all of his other senses. Bonus points if the tie is grey.
A little ice can be uncomfortable, but not painful. In loo of whips and canes, take this pain-free approach to experience a little light submission. All the benefits, none of the bruises!
One of the steamiest moments in the books was the elevator scene. It’s iconic, sexy, and sure to turn a few heads if done improperly. So stick to just a little friskiness, the handcuffs won’t be much fun if bars are separating you. Well, then again, Ana seemed to like it.
“Get those Engines Revving!”
No need to be a NASCAR fanatic to have loved the car-chase scene closely followed by Ana taking charge in the parking garage. Don’t worry–we aren’t recommending risky road… ahem… behavior. Instead focus on the road, park, and then focus on each other.
Ana introduced Christian to this wonderful world, and you shouldn’t be apposed to it either. Positions– like missionary and woman on top– shouldn’t be forgotten. Ana put it best after Christian called their experience vanilla when she said, “I thought it was chocolate hot fudge brownie sex that we had, with a cherry on top. But hey, what do I know?” Never underestimate the classics.
Whatever your move this Valentine’s Day, remember, sex should be fun. Don’t be afraid to explore your passions and express your hidden desires to your lover; chances are they have certain fantasies they’d like to play out too. Take a Page From Mr. Grey, being honest and straightforward can only lead to bliss. However perhaps it’s best to avoid the Contract.